Weaponized incompetence

In psychology, weaponized incompetence refers to a tactic by which someone avoids their own duties by claiming that they are not good at a task.[1][2] Psychologist Dr. Susan Albers said that weaponized incompetence occurs in both workplace and romantic relationships.[1]

Examples

  • Someone refuses to improve on certain tasks[1][2]
  • Someone blames their partner for not showing them how to do a task[1]

Impact

Weaponized incompetence can cause hatred,[1][2] damaging trust in a relationship.[1][2]

References

  1. 1.0 1.1 1.2 1.3 1.4 1.5 Weaponized Incompetence: What It Is and 4 Signs. Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials (August 19, 2024). Retrieved May 21, 2025.
  2. 2.0 2.1 2.2 2.3